Blackmen and Blackfemale relationships

You know my study of blackmen and blackfemale relationships.When you marry and accumulate children by a woman.Then you divorce and sooner or later you meet someone else.Then you have another child.Why is it the woman become enemies.If this was a white situation, they all learn to love and let live one another as one big happy family for the childrens sake.So I ask myself why can't we as blackwoman grow and become understanding to the needs of embracing each other as a family,even the children need one another and they watch how the parents react.I am saying this as to say this is what's wrong with the blackrace.We hate one another because things are not going our way, but we can make it right by embracing one another just like the other races do in their time of need!