Christ or Demon behaviors

I notice today a lot of Preachers were talking about conflicts in a person relationship with their partners whether married or just boyfriend or girlfriends.First you have to no the Christ in a person or the demon in the person.By this I mean if you try to do everything you can that's right for a person and they always want more.Then that person does not mean you any good and they want to demonize ...your spirit into doing what will satisfy them.Maybe its just not that.You may have kids and you need to do certain things that is needed to fulfill what they need and the other person does not want you too,because that's taking away from what they want, mind you not need.If you can't build a relationship on intregrity, because your partner does not no what this is.You don't compromise.You stand your ground.And if this continues you need to separate the issue of who is the boss.You never ever let a partner that does not have intregrity or the Christ in them lead you or your family.If you do that means you are displacing your Christ values to please their demonize values.This can be ain't entrapment that can destroy your whole life